I always get questions about how to attract and Asian man and what are they looking for in a women.I cannot speak for every Asian man out there, because as you know all men are different and there is always that special guy that isn’t the norm.They don’t have to worry when they give up the reins to a new leader.(Disclaimer: I do know there are other men of other nationalities that can do the same and very well, but we are talking about Asian men so don’t get bent out of shape if you a male reader that isn’t Asian) I can’t say that Asian men aren’t romantic, I can say that they are romantic in a non-traditional thinking way. You probably know by now that having an Asian girlfriend is a rite of passage for all white men."Date an Asian chick" has become akin to "Go skydiving" or "Live in New York" in the veritable white guy bucket list.
We, Black women just need to do it more often than not.
It is possible, you just need to look a little harder and kiss a few more frogs to find your prince. As a Black American woman, I get stereotyped as being strong, bossy and controlling.
Chinese men actually get the same stereotype when people think of them as husbands. First of all, not all Black women are bossy and dominating.
But from my experiences and conversations here in China and in my life of dating different kinds of Asian men; I can tell you with most traditional Asian men are looking for or NOT looking for in a woman.
First, the rumors…I will begin with the things everyone always says…