It’s pretty obvious at this point in the article that cold approach pickup is non-existent here (other than the handful of clubs at Saigon).
This is because it’s so easy to meet Vietnamese girls through social circles and Vietnamese dating sites (as long as it’s not your girlfriend’s social circle).
Which at first is frustrating but becomes a source of amusement over time.
It means that right upon meeting a sexy Vietnamese girl(s), they are spiked with wonder and give you instant affection. The curve flattens – once you’ve got a good connection they refuse to let you grab them, take them home, put their arms around you on their bike.
This gives you the idea that they want to get romantic with you very soon just after a couple hours of meeting up. It is revealed that they very desperately just want to be your friend.
And it’s no surprise that people (even in modern countries) are impressed when you score with a Vietnamese chick.While it is trippy to experience dynamics as they were in the 50’s, the girl will not hesitate to get vicious, and that includes sleeping with other men or seriously fucking your shit up at home.It makes shaking the “player persona” a tempting route but the dynamic does make you into more of a man regardless of your approach.But for a player like myself this is an absolutely no no proposal.It is also bit of a culture shock to see them put up a wall right when things could have gotten interesting.This includes ignoring you completely for 2 days, flaking on a major date or commitment, or even claiming you stole something of theirs just to see how you react. This is due to how close they are with China both in terms of location and contract-like relationship culture.