I wanted to see what would happen if I basically just existed on the site and didn’t do anything to invite messages my way.Most messages flooding my inbox, of course, just said “hey how are you” because no one is original, especially on POF.I can accept some political differences with a person I’m dating, and normally I wouldn’t really care who you voted for in a presidential election, but my fears and concerns about this upcoming administration go beyond any typical difference of opinion/political party/etc (let’s be serious, Donald Trump is only pretending to be a republican anyway, so this isn’t my way of saying I won’t date republicans).
I found his Instagram and Facebook, and the person from his photos is really a man that lives in Las Vegas (very far from where I live), and has been in a relationship with a man since 2015. I was a little afraid to message the profile directly in case it really was him, but I felt like someone should know.
But, I have gotten a few politically charged messages over the past three you want a more detailed explanation of my opinion on this (that’s not my real last name, so don’t bother stalking me).
But the point is, these are MY values and MY preferences when it comes to dating.
He had started a new account and messaged me:so to be clear, I told him to leave me alone, and he told me he was going to find me on Facebook. I reached out to POF, both through a report on the site and a Twitter DM, because when I had made my original thread about them they had DMed me.
This was April 19 and as of May 10, he’s still on the site because POF is horrible.